“Sex and the City” for black women…

Hello World!!!

Me on Carrie's stoop (I know. I'm such a tourist...)

Me on Carrie's stoop (I know. I'm such a tourist...)

One of my goals on this blog is to ignite a serious and contemplative discussion about the deeper issues of faith and spirituality…today, I will not be achieving that goal…today I want to write about something fun…

If you have not heard before, guess what y’all?  There will be a “Sex and the City 2!!!” Can you believe it? According to an article I read on msnbc.com, shooting for the movie will begin soon, and the movie will be released in 2010. Goody, goody !!! (clapping hands in exultation) My girls and I are big fans of the show and saw the movie on the first night it opened just over a year ago. In fact, I am such a huge fan that I have the “Sex and the City” board game, and I went on the “Sex and the City” tour in NYC  in 2006.

What do I love about the show? I think I read or heard somewhere that the creators of the show see it as their personal love letter to single women everywhere. And if you have been single for a while you know that single women appreciate the love. It is a challenge to live the single life particularly when the world around you is coupled up and preaches the mantra that “two is better than one.” It’s even in the Bible.

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 (New International Version)

 

 9 Two are better than one,
       because they have a good return for their work:

 10 If one falls down,
       his friend can help him up.
       But pity the man who falls
       and has no one to help him up!

Kinda slick how I managed to slip in some Bible verses in a post about “Sex and the City” huh? But watching the show makes me feel like singledom is celebrated and appreciated in spite of the inevitable misadventures, mishaps and minefields. Plus, the show is hilarious. Remember all of the crazy guys those girls dated. Now, I know that some criticize the show because the women jump in and out of beds throughout the city ergo the title “Sex and the City” but the show still managed to intelligently illuminate the issues that single people face. 

Me and the tour guide

Me and the tour guide

With all of that said, I watched the movie in its entirety again on Saturday. And as I watched the movie again (I’ve probably seen it 3 or 4 times now), I was reminded of the one criticism of the movie that all of my girls agreed on – Jennifer Hudson’s character “Louise.” I heard that in an effort to appeal to the black fan base of the show, the movie writers decided to inject a black character. But my friends thought that with her use of Ebonics and her penchant for renting not buying designer purses, Louise was more of an insult instead of a compliment to black fans. As I watched the movie again, I didn’t necessarily think her character was offensive, but her character did seem to bit contrived. For those of you who saw the movie, what do you think?

Apparently, there was open casting call for extras for the movie yesterday in the NYC. I wonder if any black actors and actresses will be chosen. I also wonder if any black characters will be included in the sequel of the “Sex and the City” movie. If so, I hope the writers manage to make the character  or characters seem more natural like Blair Underwood’s character in the show. Remember his relationship with Miranda? In a word, “steamy.” (I actually met Blair in 1994 in Boston. Fine as wine for real…) It is plausible that one of the characters could fall for someone as fine as Blair…

Truth be told, I don’t necessarily mind that that there are no black characters front and center in the show. I’m fairly political and all, but I don’t think Rev. Al should be called just because of this fact. I enjoy the show and think it’s well written. However, if black characters will be front and center in this movie, I think these characters should be plausible. So in case the writers for the movie happen to come across this blog, what are your suggestions for a new black character?

I think her name should be “Jackie.” Jackie is a powerful and sassy name, and we all know many black women who are powerful and sassy. Since Samantha is the only one of the girls who ends up not being in a stable relationship at the end of the first movie, I think Jackie should be a friend of hers. I think Samantha and Jackie should become friends as the rest of the girls won’t have as much time to hang. She should be a PR guru as Samantha is and a part of her network. I think Jackie, who is in political PR,  and Samantha should work as a team to improve the image of a New York politician who is found to be soliciting prostitutes behind his wife’s back. Sound familiar?  With Jackie’s knowledge of politics and Samantha’s expertise with the sexual appetites of men, the team “save the day.” Ha, ha!  And maybe Samantha ends up falling for the politician. (My imagination is working overtime this morning…)

So what do you hope will happen in the sequel? Does a sequel even need to be made? Do you think the movie should have black characters?

Yes, I saved the booklet from the tour...

Yes, I saved the booklet from the tour...

Any thoughts?

P.S. Jennifer Hudson’s character may have not been the best in the movie, but she blessed that soundtrack. I hope they include her voice in the new soundtrack.

No Words…

this is how I feel this morning...

this is how I feel this morning...

Hello World!!!

I…HAVE…WRITERS’…BLOCK…

So I will post a few things I learned and observed over the weekend as I was out and about in the A…

1. If you are nice to a waiter or waitress at a restaurant, you may get invited back into the restaurant after the restaurant is closed to toss a few ones back with the staff…

2. If you go to Nordstrom at Phipps Plaza, you may get some great dish about “The Real Housewives of Atlanta.” (Psss…hang around the makeup counters…)

3. Although my father is a minister, none have ever tried to holla at me…but they are tryin’ to holla at some folk…

4. Some guys would rather text you for over an hour instead of just call you…

5. I still have the goods to get invited to come into a party for free

stop by here in Phipps to overhear good & juice gossip...

stop by here in Phipps to overhear good & juicy gossip...

while others are forced to pay their way in…

6. You can actually get fresh sushi at the mall…

7.  There are some women who have managed to get married twice in the span of time that it has taken you to find not even one husband…

8. Lights are out in downtown Decatur by 11 p.m. unless you find the one bar that is open until 4 a.m.

9. Hit *67 before making a phone call so that your number won’t show up on the caller ID.

10. I admire single parents, but I don’t want to be one…

Y’all pray that my muse will return…I think this is a huge sign that I must resume my artist dates
How do I know that you love me...you text...

How do I know that you love me...you text...

 

Any thoughts?

What’s on Your Summer Reading List?

Up until I was in the sixth grade or so, I thought I wanted to be a librarian. Although I knew about the typical negative stereotypes  of librarians (old, white, spinster, donning cat-eye shaped glasses, hair tightly fashioned in a bun, etc.),  I was convinced that I wanted to become one. 

At the beginning of every summer during my childhood, my father brought the three of us to the public library in downtown College Park to get us enrolled in the summer library reading contest. Each of us received a sheet in which we had to write down the names of the books that we read throughout the summer. If you read a certain amount of books, you would receive prizes at the end of the summer. Although my brothers had to be cajoled into participating in these contests, I relished writing each and every title on my list. So when people asked me what I wanted to become as an adult, I thought the natural response was a librarian since reading was my absolute favorite thing to do. (Eating was a close second, ha, ha.) I wanted to be a writer too, but I didn’t know any writers so becoming a librarian seemed a more attainable choice.

Also, there was this one librarian at College Park Library who was so nice plus she didn’t look like the librarians I read about. She was tall, slender and black with long hair. She didn’t wear glasses, and she was reasonably fashionable. I figured if she could do it then I could do it. In fact, one summer just after I finished the fifth or sixth grade I volunteered to be her assistant at College Park Library. For a few hours each week, I helped her shelve books according to the Dewey Decimal System, read stories to little kids, haul books to various locations, organize the card catalogue system, etc. After that summer, I realized that the job of a librarian was a bit monotonous for me plus my new found discovery of boys didn’t help.

Since those days, I haven’t made an effort to have a “summer reading list” although reading is still my favorite pastime. A new study in the journal Psychological Science demonstrates that people’s brains actually process the actions in a book much like their brains process real life events. In other words, the same brain activity that occurs when one is in love is much like the brain activity that occurs when one is reading about being in love…it’s no wonder that romance novels are so popular with some people. (They are getting off on that stuff!) Anyway, this study just proves what I have experienced since I was a very young child. When I want to go somewhere, I just read a book.

In homage to the infamous “summer reading list,” I have decided to list some of my favorite books from my childhood. I wonder if some of these books are still popular.

1. Ludell and Willie by Brenda Scott Wilkinson. I think I must have read this book during my pre-teens. It is a tender romance story about two black teenagers in Waycross, Georgia in the 1950s. In this book, you can experience segregation and learn about big, thick juicy pickles that make you want to suck the juice out of them before chomping them. This book also made me want to marry a country boy. In fact, I often thought of this book when I dated this guy who is from Vidalia.

2. Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret? by Judy Blume. I think Judy Blume books helped raise me. This is a must read for any young girl who has yet to experience her first period. Goodness, those days were so confusing, but books like this help out a lot…

3. The Ramona books by Beverly Cleary. I don’t remember what these books were about exactly. I just remember the heroine of these books was this little girl with a brown bob who was always getting in trouble.  It seemed like there was a ton of these books…

4. The Friends by Rosa Guy. This book is about a friendship between a black girl from the West Indies and a black girl from New York. It reminded me of my friendship with a girl who had just moved to Georgia from Jamaica.  In those days, my quest to find a best friend was as troublesome as my quest to find a mate is now. Maybe it will be resolved as it was then. All of a sudden, she just showed up, and she wasn’t like the best friend I had pictured in my mind. She was a couple of grades ahead of me and had an accent, but I felt I had known her forever…

5. Seventeenth Summer by Maureen Daly. This book is about a summer romance between a girl that is about to go to college and a high school star athlete who had once seemed unattainable. Apparently, Daly was in college when she wrote the story! If I ever visit Wisconsin, I must visit Fond du Lac where this story takes place.

6. The Diary of Anne Frank by Anne Frank. This book is a heartbreaking story of a young Jewish girl and her family during the Nazi occupation of the Netherlands. The family was forced to hide out in an attic for about two years. This precocious young woman recorded her insights during this unbelievably horrific crime against humanity. Anne ultimately died in a concentration camp.

7. Summer of My German Soldier by Bette Greene. Reading the above mentioned book gave me perspective on this book. This is  a story about a young girl’s crush on a German soldier, who escaped a POW camp. It is an unlikely story as the main character is Jewish. This girl ends up hiding the German soldier who ultimately slips away before their relationship is revealed.

So what are some of your favorite childhood books? Why? Do you have a “summer reading list” now? How is it going? Any suggestions for good reads?

Any thoughts?

P.S. I ran into that librarian in my early 20s. She was working at the public library in Buckhead. Surely, she must have retired by now…