Act Against AIDS appears at FSO (For Sisters Only)

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From left to right, Melyssa Ford, Shanebrae Price, Sheryl Lee Ralph, Robert E. Bailey II & Dr. Kathleen Green Ruth

Yesterday, I attended the 20th year celebration of “For Sisters Only,” which is hosted by V-103 and WAOK radio stations. It’s hard to believe that I started going to this event( a cornucopia of businesses, exhibits, concerts, celebrities and more directed toward women) as a recent college graduate, and it is still going strong! I remember being so excited when one year I literally ran into Dré of OutKast, and he took a picture with me. Back then, he could freely walk around without too much of a ruckus…but that was back in the day when I was young, I’m not a kid anymore…don’t act…you know the lyrics 🙂

And since I have grown up since then, I’m not as drawn to the celebrity/concert component of FSO….I’m more drawn to the activism component of this great event now. So I decided to attend a HIV/AIDS panel discussion moderated by Robert E. Bailey II of the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). The panel discussion was held as a part of Act Against AIDS, a five-year national communication campaign launched by the CDC and the White House to combat complacency about the HIV/ AIDS crisis in the United States.

Robert E. Bailey II speaking with the audience.

The panel discussion included actor and singer Sheryl Lee Ralph, who is an AIDS activist in her own right and my soror; model Melyssa Ford, Shanebrae Price, an HIV Prevention outreach specialist with SisterLove Inc. and Dr. Kathleen Green Ruth with the CDC. The discussion was held on the main stage just before the concerts kicked off so many younger people had started congregating –  a prime opportunity to have a real discussion about HIV/AIDS prevention.

Some of the startling statistics revealed in the panel discussion:

  • Although the annual number of new HIV infections has remained stable overall from 2006 to 2009, there was an estimated 21 percent increase in HIV incidence for people aged 13-29 years old.
  • About a million people are living with HIV, and one in five of them don’t even know they are affected.
  • About half of the million of people living with HIV are black.

Some of the helpful initiatives and tools revealed in the discussion:

Price told the audience about Healthy Love parties the organization hosts with small groups of women in various settings to discuss HIV/AIDS prevention. Price said she helps the women to learn their ABCs. A is for Abstinence as complete abstinence from sex is a surefire way to prevent the spread of HIV/AIDS. And if you cannot be abstinent, she advocates choosing option B which stands for being faithful or monagamous in a committed relationship. And if you choose option B, you must also choose C for constant, consistent and correct condom use.

Ford said she carries around her status papers with her and has launched a non-profit organization LESS (Literacy, Etiquette, Strength, Self) is More to educate young women formally and informally abour various issues such as HIV/AIDs prevention.

Ralph said that although the AIDS Memorial Quilt, a quilt which includes the names of

Of course, I had to get the soror shot in...lol...Sorors Holness & Lee Ralph on deck...

those who have lost their lives to AIDS, is 55 miles long, only a half of a mile of the quilt is dedicated to people of color. She advised audience members to go to aidsquilt.org to have the names of their loved ones added.

For more information, please go to Act Against AIDS.

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Tyler Perry Takeover…

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Somewhere up in Brooklyn I bet Spike Lee is spitting nails…lol…Forbes Magazine announced that Tyler Perry is the highest paid man in entertainment as he earned $130 million between May 2010 and May 2011…I am really proud of him! Whatever people may think of his movies and shows, he is a real-life example of the American dream!

And now he has a new show coming out…For Better or Worse, a TBS sitcom based on the characters Angela and Marcus from Why Did I Get Married? I loved that movie, and Angela & Marcus were the best characters in the film! The show stars Tasha Smith and Michael Jai White, who originated the characters in the feature film, and introduces some new faces, including Kent Faulcon, Crystle Stewart, Jason Olive, Brad James and Cocoa Brown.

Below is a trailer for the new show…Will you be watching? I will…

Hilarious!

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Remembering 9/11 10 Years Later…aka We Won’t Stop…

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There are events that define a nation. Through my history books I read as a student, I learned about the start of the Civil War, the attack on Pearl Harbor, the assassination of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. and other tragedies that changed the trajectory of our country. The 9/11 attacks in New York City, Washington D.C. and Shanksville, Pennsylvania are recorded in history books destined to be read by students generations from now as a tragedy that redefined our nation’s course…

But in every tragedy, there is an opportunity for triumph…I truly believe that…In 2006, I visited Ground Zero, where I was able see with my very own eyes physical remnants of the tragedy that shook the very foundation of New York City in particular and our country in general. I was both saddened by what I saw and yet encouraged by the vigilant rebuilding taking shape…

A makeshift memorial for the victims of 9/11 at Ground Zero. I took this photo in December 2006.

I was also encouraged that a church located directly across the street from the World Trade Center complex in New York City was still standing, but most importantly, the church had been instrumental in ministering to the victims of 9/11 that horiffic morning. That church is St Paul’s Church.

This is the photo that I took of St. Paul’s Church in December 2006.

Read an excerpt from an account of an associate of ministry of St. Paul’s Church about their service to the victims that morning. (To read the entire account, go to National Geographic.com.)

On September 12, after having escaped the maelstrom of 9/11, I returned to Lower Manhattan to survey the damage to St. Paul’s Chapel—just yards away from where building 5 of the World Trade Center stood—and to find ways to be helpful in the rescue effort. At that point we assumed there would be many survivors.

As I walked down Broadway from my apartment in Greenwich Village, my heart was pounding, not knowing what I might find. I assumed the chapel had been demolished. When I saw the spire still standing, I was overwhelmed. It took my breath away.

Opening the door to enter St. Paul’s was an extraordinary experience; except for a layer of ash and soot, the building survived unscathed. Many proclaimed that “St. Paul’s had been spared.” It seemed clear to me that if this was true, it was not because we were holier than anyone who died across the street; it was because we now had a big job to do.

Taking this challenge to heart, we set up a cold drink concession and hot food service four days later for the rescue workers, and men from our shelter, and many others, proudly flipped burgers at what came to be called the “Barbecue on Broadway.” The relief ministry at St. Paul’s was supported by the labor of three local institutions—the Seamen’s Church Institute, the General Theological Seminary, and St. Paul’s, in the parish of Trinity Church—and volunteers from all over the country.

More than 5,000 people used their special gifts to transform St. Paul’s into a place of rest and refuge. Musicians, clergy, podiatrists, lawyers, soccer moms, and folks of every imaginable type poured coffee, swept floors, took out the trash, and served more than half a million meals.

Emerging at St. Paul’s was a dynamic I think of as a reciprocity of gratitude.a circle of thanksgiving—in which volunteers and rescue and recovery workers tried to outdo each other with acts of kindness and love, leaving both giver and receiver changed. This circle of gratitude was infectious, and I hope it continues to spread. In fact, I hope it turns into an epidemic.

-The Reverend Lyndon Harris

As we reflect on the tragedy that knocked the collective wind out of our country for a time, let us also rejoice in the triumph that has emerged from our despair: the determination that we still be human in spite of the inhumane acts committed upon us, that we are still a refuge for “your tired, your poor, your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,”  and that we are still “one nation under God.”

In the words of famed New Yorker Diddy, “…We Won’t Stop.”

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