Check Out Author Jacqueline J. Holness (ME) on Pursuit of Purpose Podcast!

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I’m so blessed that I continue to have the opportunity to share the news about my debut novel Destination Wedding via various platforms! Most recently, I was a guest of Indiana Tuggle on her Pursuit of Purpose podcast. In this episode, I shared about dating with purpose and how my dating (I share my bizness y’all…) life led to me writing Destination Wedding. To listen to the podcast, here it is…

Here’s a synopsis of Destination Wedding:

Successful best friends in Atlanta believe they are thriving. But when an ABC News “Nightline” report reveals that 42% of black women have never been married, the friends resolve to defy the sad statistic and marry in a year: project Destination Wedding is born. Only love is not an experiment easily confined to a timetable…Yes, not only do I write riveting recaps, I think I wrote a wonderful novel as well ūüôā

If you’re interested in buying a copy of Destination Wedding and live in metro Atlanta, you can buy a copy at these bookstores: (Be sure to wear a mask.)

Medu Bookstore, 2841 Greenbriar Pkwy (in Greenbriar Mall), Atlanta, GA 30331

Nubian Bookstore, 1540 Southlake Pkwy, Morrow, GA 30260

And if you don’t live in metro Atlanta, you can buy Destination Wedding¬†at any of these booksellers below:

                        

So listen to Pursuit of Purpose and or read Destination Wedding and let me know what you think!

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Yvonne Orji of ‘Insecure’ To Release Her First HBO Comedy Special’ Momma, I Made It’ on Saturday, June 6!

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Insecure‘s¬†Yvonne Orji gets a packed Howard Theatre rolling¬†with laughter as she brings her razor-sharp wit and confidence to the stage in her first HBO comedy special Momma, I Made It.¬†Both celebrating and poking fun at her strict, formative Nigerian-American upbringing, Yvonne speaks to her unique journey from pre-med to comedy.

Below is the HIGHlarious trailer!

The comedy special will be available on HBO Go and and HBO Now on Saturday, June 6 at 7 p.m. and at 10 p.m. on HBO.

Additionally, the comedy special will be on HBO according to the schedule below:

  • Sun, Jun 07 10:50 am PT HBO COMEDY
  • Sun, Jun 07 1:40 pm PT¬†HBO COMEDY
  • Sun, Jun 07 4:40 pm PT¬†HBO COMEDY
  • Sun, Jun 07 7:50 pm PT¬†HBO COMEDY
  • Tue, Jun 09 3:40 am PT¬†HBO2
  • Tue, Jun 09 9:00 pm PT¬†HBO2
  • Sun, Jun 14 11:30 am PT¬†HBO2
  • Tue, Jun 16 11:05 pm PT¬†HBO2
  • Fri, Jun 19 6:50 pm PT¬†HBO2
  • Sun, Jun 21 7:15 am PT¬†HBO2
  • Thu, Jun 25 9:40 pm PT¬†HBO2

And as you may or may not know, I had the pleasure of interview Yvonne before! Check out that interview HERE.

Any thoughts?

Fiction Dynamo Kimberla Lawson Roby Releases Revealing First Nonfiction Book ‘The Woman God Created You to Be’ (INTERVIEW)

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With the emergence of COVID-19, Women’s History Month has gotten lost in the shuffle of navigating this pandemic. But nevertheless, I wanted to end Women History’s Month on a positive note. Kimberla Lawson Roby is making history in her writing career as she penned her first nonfiction title The Woman God Created You to Be: Finding Success Through Faith — Spiritually, Personally, and Professionally after penning 27 fiction titles! She has sold nearly 3 Million copies of her books,¬†and they have frequented numerous bestseller lists, including¬†The New York Times, USA Today, The Washington Post, Publishers Weekly, Essence, Upscale, Black Christian News, AALBC.com, Barnes and Noble, Amazon.com, Wal-Mart,¬†The Dallas Morning News, The Austin Chronicle and many others.

Below is the synopsis for The Woman God Created You to Be followed by my interview.

ARE YOU THE¬†REAL¬†WOMAN GOD CREATED YOU TO BE? HAVE YOU WANTED TO BECOME HER‚ÄĒSPIRITUALLY, PERSONALLY, and PROFESSIONALLY?

Kimberla Lawson Roby admits that for years, she¬†wasn‚Äôt¬†being the real woman God created her to be. Yes, she has always loved God and tried her best to honor Him, but what she eventually discovered was that building and maintaining her own personal relationship with God‚ÄĒand making¬†Him¬†her top priority‚ÄĒwas the key to finding joy in all areas of her life.

Now, in¬†The Woman God Created You to Be, Kimberla has bravely‚ÄĒand transparently‚ÄĒwritten about her flaws, fears, and failures, as well as her faith, courage, and successes. From experiencing divorce to marrying her soulmate of twenty-nine years‚Ķfrom hopelessly searching for the perfect job to becoming a¬†New York Times¬†bestselling author‚Ķfrom suffering in silence with anxiety to concentrating on self-care‚Ķfrom struggling with the loss of her mom to finding strength, comfort, peace. and understanding‚ÄĒKimberla takes you on a journey that will help you do the following:

‚óŹ Become the Best Spiritual You (Seven Days Per Week)

‚óŹ Become the Best Personal You (Mentally, Emotionally, and Physically)

‚óŹ Become the Best Professional You (Without Jeopardizing Your Faith)

Kimberla reminds us that when we trust and depend on God‚ÄĒheart, mind, and soul‚ÄĒHe will empower us to do more than we ever thought imaginable. He will help us see that we are more than enough, and that He has already given us everything we need to become the women¬†He¬†created us to be‚ÄĒspiritually, personally, professionally‚Ķand beyond.

1. In your latest title “The Woman God Created You to Be,” your first nonfiction title, you reveal so much. You reveal that you wrote your last seven fictional stories ‚Äúin misery,‚Ä̬† that you didn‚Äôt meet your biological father until you were an adult, that you were touched inappropriately as a child, that you‚Äôve been married before and more. Why reveal all of this now after cultivating a career in writing in which you have kept your personal life to yourself?
 
That is a very, very good question, even one that I sort of had for myself, and the only answer that I have is what the truth is: This is not necessarily the book that I wanted to write. But it is a book that God laid on my heart,¬†and¬†one that just wouldn’t go away.¬†First of all, the idea of just writing a nonfiction book, and also the idea of¬†writing a book in which I am so transparent.¬†But as I continued to pray about it and move forward with it, I decided,¬†‘Okay, yes, Lord, I hear you, and I am going to write this book.’¬†Especially if it is going to help women.¬†I¬†also¬†had to come to the understanding that the only way I was going to do that was to share my own¬†experiences¬†whether they were the successes and the accomplishments that God has allowed me to have, as well as¬†the fears,¬†the flaws,¬†and the failures.
 
2. You said you wrote your Rev. Curtis Black Series so that readers would pay close attention to who their church leaders are. Do you feel you accomplished this goal?
 
I do. From when the very first title in the series ‘Casting the First Stone’ was released in January 2000, I’ve heard many, many stories from readers in cities and states throughout the country. So many people have said to me, ‘It made me take a look at my pastor. It made me take a look at my church leader.’ I heard them say that it wasn’t something they’d thought to do, and that it really made a difference in their lives, so that was my whole point. I also mentioned in the book that I love God too much to have written that particular series to criticize or ridicule the church or pastors. I would never do that, and my hope was that people would come to realize that it’s not about worshiping another human being who is standing in the pulpit, but it is absolutely about making sure your own personal relationship with God is intact.
No one is perfect, but what do you feel that people should look for in a church leader, particularly for those who are sour on church as you mentioned in your Church People chapter?
 
I think people should certainly look for a leader who is following God and then also one who has great integrity. I speak very highly of my own pastor because those were two of the things that Will [her husband] and I looked for when we began looking for a different church several years ago. And that makes all the difference – looking for a pastor who not only does what he says he is going to do but that you can see that he is doing it. And you can feel that he cares, not just about himself but that he cares about people in general.
 
3. In your chapter The Comparison Game and Pretending to Be Someone You‚Äôre Not, you write about writers who have often said they want to be like you with a wonderfully successful writing career without realizing that if¬†that were true, they would have to be like all of you ‚Äď which includes still grieving the loss of your mother after she passed away 18 years ago and having anxiety attacks. Why do you feel that this is an important message for writers?
 
I think that it’s a very important message because especially in this day of social media, so many times, people are scrolling through timelines and they’re looking at the next person, thinking, ‘Wow, I wish I could trade places with them,’ or ‘Wow, there’s no sense in me following through with the purpose that I know God has given me because someone else is already doing it.’ That’s what I believe really gets us in trouble. The best advice I could give to anyone, and this is across the board, is to just be who God created you to be. Focus on what your own passions are. Pray and ask God to show you what your purpose is so that you can begin walking in it. One of my lines that I like to say is, and it’s not brand new, but I really believe in staying in my own lane. I just suggest that everyone do that.
And for some writers, you are a New York Times bestselling author, but for some authors, their writing path may not include that kind of accolade. What do you say to that?
 
My thoughts have always been to focus on what God created you to do. Maybe He has brought you into this world to bless 20 people versus 20,000 or 20 million. But we have to be okay with that. We have to do what God has assigned to our lives.
 
4. In your chapter Friends, Friendly Enemies and the Mean Girl Syndrome, you wrote about some female authors who shunned you while male authors were kind to you. Why do you feel that women tend to be like that, and how did you eventually find female authors whom you could trust?
 
I really don’t have an answer for that. That’s something that I would love for someone to tell me and explain to me why that happens. Why do you come across some women who just can’t be happy for you if you’re doing just a little bit better than they believe they are? And with men, it’s something totally, totally different. I really don’t have an answer for that. I can only tell you my response¬†to it, and that was to totally walk away from everybody at that time. And then as time went on, I eventually met new authors, and I became a lot more careful. And then when months and years started to pass, and I saw they really had not changed, that they were genuine, and that they cared about me as much as I cared about them, I just discovered who those people were.
And from what I read, it looked like you had to find your own way in your writing career. Did you ever find a mentor, or did you just have to take things step-by-step in establishing your writing career?
 
I had to take things step-by-step. I, honestly, till this day, I really don’t have another author, other than the two authors who I mentioned in the book, who really stepped up and said, ‘This is what you should do next,’ ‘This is what you should be doing,’ or ‘Great job! Keep doing that!’ And those authors are E. Lynn Harris and Eric Jerome Dickey. Those were the two,¬†at the very beginning,¬†who I learned so much from during those first couple of years of my career.
 
5. In your chapter Everyone has a Soulmate –¬† Even if She Hasn‚Äôt Met Him Yet, which is a controversial title, you reveal that you believe that every woman has a soulmate. Why do you believe that?
 
I do. I believe it, I think, because of my experience with Will and being married before and ultimately meeting Will and just knowing, “Oh my gosh, this is a connection that I’ve never experienced in my life even throughout my years of dating.” Will and I came together, and I don’t want to say¬†how¬†because I don’t want to give so much away from the book. But I just believe that everyone has a soulmate. My controversial statement in¬†that chapter is ‘even if you’re married¬†to¬†someone else’ that’s not your soulmate, you still have a soulmate out there.
And you also advise women to not just be looking for a doctor, attorney or corporate executive but also  to be on the lookout for the man who delivers your mail, works for the electric company or  works at a fast food restaurant. Do you feel that is an issue for women in their search for love?
 
Many times women are looking for not just necessarily their soulmate or the man who will treat them well or the man who will love them or be faithful to them, they’re looking for a certain type of lifestyle. I think that can really cause problems for women in the end.

There are many more questions that I could have asked of Kimberla regarding her book The Woman God Created You to Be: Finding Success Through Faith — Spiritually, Personally, and Professionally, but I don’t want to reveal it all. Hopefully, I’ve given you enough for you to want to pick up your own copy which you can HERE!

Kimberla’s books deal with very real issues, including women empowerment, sexual harassment, racial and gender discrimination in the workplace, problems within the church (and the consequences),  Christian/family/moral values, drug and gambling addiction, marriage, infidelity, single motherhood, breast cancer, infertility, sibling rivalry, domestic violence, childhood sexual abuse, mental illness, and the care-giving of a parent to name a few. In addition, Kimberla’s books offer a message of redemption, forgiveness, and the realities of everyday life.

Kimberla resides in Illinois with her husband, Will.

For more information about Kimberla, please visit her website: kimroby.com.

Any thoughts?